he still has an annoying habit of saying "I didn't know what you wanted to do tonight" instead of (the much more direct and my preference of) "what do you want to do tonight?". The first one makes him sound to me like some kind of victim.
Attractive men tell YOU what they've ARRANGED to be done or suggest somethings that YOU like to do. I'll never wake up on a weekend and NOT know what to do with my family. FIB
I totally agree with you. H used to do this when he was courting me. He still does this with vacation planning...we start with talking about what we'd like to get out of a trip, narrow it down to a few locations, then we pick. He then does all the research, narrows it down, and asks for my input on where we stay and what we do. It works well for us--I'm a global thinker, and he's one of those detail guys who kicks *ss at Trivial Pursuit.
But...I'd like to be swept off of my feet now and again. That's the part that still rubs a bit post LW. It's the little stuff that matters....
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
