What should I do at this point?

[one_light]

I know that it is hard not to obsess about the OM or whether or not there is an OM or who the OM might be, etc. In the end it is an exercise in futility. She is either with you or she is not with you. Does it really matter whether she is with some guy named Tom or some guy named Joe or with another woman or gone off and joined the circus?

Granted, where it comes to your kids, all of that stuff matters a lot. Where it comes to you, however, she is either with you or she isn’t. Try not to torture yourself anymore than you have to.

Just so you know you are not alone, I obsessively check the ex’s myspace to see what she is up to. It almost always hurts. I know that I shouldn’t, yet I still do.

Keep your chin up brother, this to shall pass.