Sorry you have found yourself over here, but you should get some really good advice. I'm glad that you had a positive interaction with your w. I'm sorry that it ended the way it did. Remember you were both tired and it wasn't the ideal situation. I have got some things to say on your sitch but it is quite late here now so I will post tomorrow. I really feel that there were a lot of positives there and if you need to vent further just do.