Thanks one_light. I am trying, and she has even mentioned it. She told me - "You keep trying...". I replied with silence, and letting her know that after she filed, that I made a choice - I could be sleeping around, looking for a rebound relationship OR I could go to a marriage counselor / DivorceCare group and find out as to why / what I contributed to losing my best friend / wife. She had no reply to that.
Yesterday I called her cell phone and some guy picked up and indicated who is this....I was a first shocked, but was aware that this could happen....I asked, may I speak with "K..." - the guy said that there was no one by that name... I called twice and the guy picked up twice...I shut off my phone and turned it back on. recalled her cell phone number and I finally got her voice mail box. I know that I may be imagining things, considering that I have called someone else and by accident called someone eleses number....way to go "Cingu....now AT..."
"K...." calls me this morning saying that she recieved my messages regarding dropping of the child support check. I told her about the phone incident and other guy picking up....she really had no reply about it other than she had been having problems with her phone. Do I believe her....not really, but I guess that is one of the things that bothered her the most - TRUST.
