A, I hope that you and your family have a beautiful 4th of July. I pray that your h comes through with the tickets. It would be a huge disappointment for you children if he couldn't.
It sounds like he feels very comfortable at "home". I'd say, contiue to go w/the flow for now. I think he thinks the pressure is off of him for now w/everything going on. Just sit still and all will be revealed at some point in time.
Enjoy the week, as it is a short one for many!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.