Congratulations on H's win and his new job! Too bad about the crash, but he's okay and cars can be fixed. It gives H a project to work on...I think that's a very, very good thing.
So, I just want to caution you on something...you know my H works with LW (I think). I thought for a long time that if he left his job, then I'd feel safe again. Better about her. H is now working from home and has very limited contact with her (he's half time where he was and is freelancing other projects with other companies). Still...I worried. Still do a little. Still hate her over-frizzed hair. And she's still just so aw-shucks sweet that she sent him a framed photograph of a career luncheon she was in charge of and he participated in w/a bunch of middle school kids. *She* isn't in the picture, but hell,she could have just put the pic in his box at work.
Don't mean to hijack, but even though I know H is done with her and she never had a thing for him, you can tell it still bugs me. And there's no one who can deal with those feelings and that situation except for me, you know?
The OW can still contact him, your H can still contact her if he wants to. My best advice is to work on letting go of all of that...for you. Because there are no guarantees as we've both found out.
Sheesh...I sound like Debbie Downer, LOL! I just want you to be prepared emotionally, because I definitely was surprised by my reaction on Saturday when the envelope with the picture showed up in my mail.
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
