someone told me (this applies to lots of things) that which is hardest for you to do is exactly what you must do.

Before you do something which you think might bring conflict ask yourself "is what I'm about to do going to help or hurt my M?"

Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.