Real life is----part 5

[kat727]

I'll be thinking of you. Just remember you want the alien gone that has taken over your H. You are going to be fine. Hugs

kat

[Eagle 2]

Sara,

Good luck tomorrow. Hopefully, you will get what you want. I does seem like the best result is the one that brings you some peace.

I understand about the telling issue. You have to do what you think is best. I was just trying to pass on some hard-earned wisdom from my experience.

I will keep in my thoughts and prayers.

[cat03]

hugs and prayers your way))))))))))) and I also highly recommend the book, it will help you lots. Also, 'the spiritual divorce' is another great book which helped me begin to heal.

If they (Hs) were not able to shape up and fight for us when we gave them a chance and were with us there isn't much we can expect from them at this point (stranger things have happened but rarely). I pray and have faith that it will be for the best, this step you are taking, the constant deception is a big red flag that he isn't willing/able to come through for you nor himself for that matter, he has a long way to go to be a decent human being at this point.

[klm]

(((((Sara)))))

Good luck today. I haven't been posting much but I have been keeping up. I am so sorry you are going through this and I hope things go well today.

I am in the same boat as you. I filed....which I felt like I was forced to do....and I have to go sign papers at 4:30 today.

We can both do this.

[hopeful4her]

Sara, I haven't posted in a while. A lot going on with me. Caught up a little. I hope things go well for you today. In your sitch, it is for the better. At least for now. You have too much to offer and your H is being petty and childish.

And do NOT get me started on the shirt thing, again. He just makes it too easy. Puppy's idea was GREAT.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Sara,

I'll be thinking about you today. I hope and pray that it goes well for you.

Before you go in there, PRAY. Pray that God will do what He wants done for now.

Hugs & puppy licks,

Puppy

[karen43]

Sara, I'm thinking of you and praying also! I have to say I will be a little surprised if your H signs today--but he seems so confused, I guess who knows??? I know you will be ok no matter what happens & a better future awaits you!!! Karen

[JeffSTL]

Relax Sara: At the same time I want him to sign and I don't want him to sign.

I know you are scared, and you still have feelings for H.

I'm sorry Sara, praying for you today, and everyday.

We all have a long haul ahead of us, good or bad it's the path we choose in life that's important.

M45
W41
M10 3/4 years
D9, D6, D6, S5
OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me
WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08
Date I'll forgive W for A = never

[Starshyne]

Thank you everyone so much! I wish I had been keeping up with your sitch more. Sometimes they just make me cry because there are so many of us hurting in our lives.

I have 2 hours until the moment. Filled the morning with working out, putting a new chair on lay away and having a decent lunch. Now I am going to do some laundry. Wasn't able to sleep last night even with the sleeping pills.

Right now I am really hoping that he signs. I feel like he is going to. But I really don't know.

Sara

[Snow White]

Good luck Sara, it will all turn out ok. For all of us.

Denise