No they did not have an R although H would have liked to. Was even thinking about leaving.
She has told me that she will go out of her way weven more not to talk to H and let me know anything that may happen. I do beleive her and there are a few good reasons why.
I don't think the idea would work only because he works there with her and has to have minimal contact and he can't quit the job. He needs to somehow get her out of his system. Maybe her going out of her way to stay away from him might make a difference.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez