I have stated that I want no contact But, that is pretty hard for H since he has to have minimal contact at work with her. He has worked there for 30 years and there isn't much out there for work so I can't ask him to quit.
I do believe her. She had no reason to tell me some of the things she said. she even told me that he lied about not getting her a gift or remembering it was her b-day as she recieved a lottery ticket from her. Also other person would confirm for me truth or lie. She has stated that she won't except anything from him and that she will go out of her way even more to honor my no contact. He knows that she wants nothing to do with him even as a friend now.
I do not think he would do a contract for anything as he would really have to admit to the fact that he still holds feelings.
He is trying to be there with me but you can feel the emotional distance still and know that he is not totally with me.
JAK
Last edited by jak58; 06/30/0805:42 PM.
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