I just realized an mlc "success" of which I am aware.
My boss had a mlc a few years ago. I've spoken to her several times in an attempt to understand what is going on with my X-W. She left her husband and the very nice home they were building to live with another man. I asked her what caused her to go back to her husband. She responded;
"One day I was sitting on the patio relaxing and having a drink with my boyfriend and I realized I could be at home doing the same thing with _______."
Proof some really do wake up?
"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.