I just realized an mlc "success" of which I am aware.

My boss had a mlc a few years ago. I've spoken to her several times in an attempt to understand what is going on with my X-W. She left her husband and the very nice home they were building to live with another man. I asked her what caused her to go back to her husband. She responded;

"One day I was sitting on the patio relaxing and having a drink with my boyfriend and I realized I could be at home doing the same thing with _______."

Proof some really do wake up?

"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13