Now to get other people to really see and understand this logic. It seems so simple to me but I guess for some it isn't so cut and dry.
Catfan,
Haven't been around DB much and when I do stop in I am usually checking on the "Newcomers". I just caught up with your sitch and I have to say that you sound like you are in a very good place. I believe you summed up the benefits of standing in your recent recaps that highlight your love for your wife. Brother, you know that you are standing for a higher principle than the sometimes selfish or manipulative approach that some take and then give up when things don't go their way. Laying aside your pain...your hurt...your anger...even your needs...for the one you love is TRULY unconditional love. I applaud your stand...your strength! It is funny how the "world" sees this as weakness....when it takes a miraculous amount of strength to pull off. Your girls are benefiting greatly from this....and your W is as well...I know she see this...but, I'm praying that she will return to the source of that strength.
Praising God Daily, Remaining "FaithfulH" Me: 62 W: 62 D:33 S:30 & 31 Married: 40 Years BD: Sep 2006 Piecing: May 2007 2nd BD: May 2014 Working On It: Today