guess I should update my .signature line.
She HAS filed already. served me in Dec 2006. At the time, was full-steam ahead for getting it done.
Over time, this has mellowed out. But she still is holding on tightly to a grudge. Too tightly to reconcile with me.

She asked me to buy her out of our house. Previously, it was just because she "wanted out".
However, in the present, she says it is only because she "needs the money" to help her parents make payments on loan for their home remodelling(where she lives in the added-on rooms and pays rent), because her father just lost his job.

When I asked her, she said that was the only reason. and while she "thinks about finalizing the divorce sometimes", she says she does not have any specific plans to do so at the moment.

'course, the last time we spoke about her intentions, she wasnt actively dating a guy in the same timezone. So I dont know whether she still has no plans to do so.
double-ugh.


Last edited by Dom R; 06/30/08 04:39 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle