Rusty, he feels some love for you, or he wouldn't have come over.
People get "in love with you" and "love you" confused all the time. Our society thinks love should be based on chemistry, attraction, etc, and really, true love is something else.
I guess I would advise you to make the changes in yourself for YOU, and get the life you want for YOU, and maybe H will want to follow along.
Being happy with yourself, not needing another person to "complete" you, is what makes a person attractive. And you will find great joy when you are living your life for yourself and being the person you want to be.
Married: 25 years Separated: 5 years Kids: 2, ages 21 and 24 Me: 53 H: 50
