Hope4us struggle, part 6

[Hope4us]

Thanks Pup, TAL (you have mail too).

I agree Pup, I think she's been moving in the right direction, but I just don't think she's "got it". Could she get it if I gave her more time? Maybe. But the way things are now are affecting my kids and that's something I WILL NOT ALLOW to go on any longer.

Part of me thinks when S16 tells her we're moving with or without her that that will wake her up, but I'm not counting on it. And to tell the truth here, she may wake up, but if she's not willing to give me what I need, then I'm done with it. I've already told her more times than I can count that I want to move forward in our marriage, with the knowledge gained, to a place where we're BOTH happy, but I think she thinks she doesn't have to do any of that work because I should just accept that I'm the cause of her affair and she was completely justified in what she did. And that AIN'T gonna work.

BTW, looked like this morning she might have looked at "not just friends" some more. Don't know for sure, but I think. Maybe she's thinking about it more? Who knows, but I know she's going to get a lot of time to think about it soon, one way or another.

I appreciate the support guys.