Well, the good news is that he's still attracted to you and enjoys the sexual aspect of your relationship. I envy you that.
I think I agree with you on the marriage vows thing. It would be really difficult for me to be with anyone else, even though it's been 5 years, because I AM still married to the guy.
I think I see lots of positives in your sitch, Rusty. You still have lots of contact with your husband, you are making strides to understand the dynamic of your relationship and maybe what got your marriage to the breaking point, and he seems receptive to hear you and see your changes.
That's awesome.
Married: 25 years Separated: 5 years Kids: 2, ages 21 and 24 Me: 53 H: 50
