Good morning everyone, The Question for the day is: When my W comes over in the morning to watch the kids, she asks how was your weekend, what did you and the kids do this weekend, etc. Blah Blah Blah !!! How do you respond
A. Be friendly and go into detail about what a wonderful weekend you had (even if you didn't have a good weekend). B. Be friendly and give her the details about your weekend good and the bad C. Ignore her and go about your business give her no details about anything D. Ignore her questions, throw crap at her (whatever is handy) and run out the door yelling Free at last! free at last! thank God Almighty, I'm free at last!
I really want to know, I feel bad not telling her what we did this weekend, and on the other hand, I want to throw crap at her and tell her to go jump in the lake (to put it mildly)
Sara, I will pray for you, I know you are scared, but I also know you are a very strong individual and a very good person, You will get through this. FYI my MIL is a little crazy also, called me a saint (crazy) told me I was probably better off without my W. Sara, I have to believe that both you and I will be better off.
I have been starting to think God is helping me get rid of something bad in my life, because He didn't want me to suffer anymore. He knew what W was doing, what she was hiding (OM, credit card debt, etc.), how she was treating me and the kids. How she was making me worry all the time. (Interesting Perspective)
We all have a long haul ahead of us, good or bad it's the path we choose in life that's important.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
