totally agreed. We all need to decide "Is this something I can let go, or does it really bother me?" and then either let it go or take action. Sometimes we can just DO something, other than just speaking.

The big thing is that your recognizing this and your trying to be more effective. Many of us don't recognize it and just keep doing what doesn't work.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."