Did you happen to apologize to your H about the escalated discussion?
Yes, in fact I think I apologized during the actual discussion.
Originally Posted By: S.T. _I Made It!
I know it IS really difficult to not open our mouths when we want to. I think part of that is us women don't like to wait for answers. Most of our men procrastinate, or avoid topics as those, so we want to get things done asap. Plus, our lives are so chaotic that we want to talk about things when we think about them....we might forget later.
YES! That's me... I need to put on the brakes more, like you suggested. I need to find a way to let him know when the important things are bothering me, in a way that doesn't make him feel put down. I just don't want to be pushing things under the rug.
