first of all, you could've been a size 22 and still that would'nt be a reason to do what he did (back when my stbx was human and I was about 20lbs overweight he'd still make me feel sexy and wanted, I never felt bad about myself, well after the A and when he came back I was slim, dressed and looked much better but he woudlnt' give me the time of day). So the appearance excuse is rubbish. I was also given the stupidest excuse why stbx cheated on me, he couldnt' even back up what he came up with, it's all excuses excuses excuses, dont' you believe any of them for one minute.
He's got some nerve! getting all defensive! of course he has lots to be ashamed and blamed for! what a coward.
Prayers your way )))) I do hope your car is ready soon.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.