hello all!! hope all is well with everyone out there! Just wanted to update/get some feedback on something that happend over the weekend.

H's bday was over the weekend...i was going to ask him if I could buy him a drink sometime, but wanted to feel out the sitch first..so here's how it went down. His bday was sat, so friday, i sent him a text saying, happy b-day early. thinking if the response was positve I would see what he was doing fri night. When I sent the text he was at work, so a few hours later, he sent back a response, just said "thanks". So I just tested the water a little and asked, what's new with you...he never responded. This is a new behavior??? He had been very corgial and anytime he text me, things had been going good. This was the first time in months I had initiated communication...so I don't know if that had something to do with it. I don't know if he is upset because when he past me a few weeks ago I didn't wave or give him the response he wanted. Or if the OW is back in the picture, and something is going on there??

My mind has just been racing a little over this new behavior. not sure what he's up to?? I don't know if him working next to the hospital where I work is factored into this as well. I know he has seen me when I go out to break...could he think that is some type of "chasing" behavior??

Any input would be great!! Just not sure what is going on with him! Not that I ever am/or have been!!

thanks
Christa


H-32
Me-29
T-10years
M-4yr (10/04)
Me- WAW 1/07
I filed for D 2/07
D put on hold 5/07
H re-files for D 9/08
WOW! trying MC 10/08

"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"