I know what you mean about taking responsibilty for her actions. As much as I have read on DB it takes a very long time for them to come to that stage. They are in denial. They think they have a good reason for doing it etc. etc. Its just that there is so much one person can take and everyone has there limit.
Life is too short, and if you feel that she is just not coming around, this is her loss. Your kids are old enough that they know what's going on and are supportive of you. Like I had said, I think it IS a good idea to go, she needs a serious reality check.
Sometimes I wish these S's of ours would just sh$$ or get off the pot, rather then drag us along, continuing to hurt and betray because they don't know what the heck they want. Its so fustrating. Have at least some respect for us and give us an answer as to which was they are going.
((((hugs)))
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
