I am grateful for your clarity. The fog and the limbo SUKKS, and no one else can tell each of us when our Moment of Clarity comes, but cometh it does.
You sound strong, and at peace. More importantly, you sound as if your decision-making is coming from that place of strength and peace, and NOT coming from anger, which is extremely important.
Please keep us posted. I pray your wife will come to her senses, and do the right thing. I do think she has been leaning that way, but perhaps hasn't had any reason NOT to just keep delaying it and taking her sweet time. She will now have that reason, but the choice -- as always -- is entirely up to her.
