Thanks for your input - by the way what kind of name is that?
I recently got back from a one week 25th anniversary celebration cruise - all very romantic and lovely. Spent loads of time with wife, lots of attention, lavished her with expensive gifts etc. During the one week celebration, wife felt obliged to perform wifely duty for the first time in the past 6 months - (and this was truly a tremendously arduous and tedius chore as she stared at the ceiling for 5 minutes as she demanded I finish very quickly). Anyway, after describing what an incensitive beast I was to want to have sex with her, she is hardly talking to me. I guess I have learned my lesson - don't ever be hopeful that I will have any sex life ever again. She has indicated that there is no compromise of any kind - she will not consider any kind of sex life, ever.
I suppose I either give up (although I don't know how to turn off sex drive entirely forever) or move on in the relationship. Pretty much confirming what you have to say.
Do any other low sex drive spouses have any other solutions?
