Hey lowrob, you seem to have the same thing happening as I do. I have done everything, ead all kinds of research. I feel like I understand my wife's position as the low drive person completely. I also understand my position much better now too. Unfortunately, my wife and I are on the brink of divorce. The only thing that can save us (and you most likely) is her being willing to "step up to the plate" and take an active role in making improvements. Personally, I am through with the seemingly endless hours of therapy and the discussions. The only thing that speaks to me now is action...and by action I mean she needs to be taking the lead on resolving this problem. I am through with it.
Sorry about this. I just re-read it and it sounds a lot like a rant.
