And you know, standing up to them (us, women) is vital. As a woman I lost respect for my h hugely if he gave in to me when I knew I was being unrealistic and stroppy. I was doing it to push him. If he gave in I thought he was just doing it for an easy life and didn't love me enough to fight for me (insane I know). In actual fact he was probably just tring to keep the peace and make me happy. Don't take any rubbish unless she has an actual point, she'll respect you more for it. IMHO...
