I have nothing to report as far as progress in the intimacy area. I am back in the bedroom, as my cough has diminished.
My W has been raising the issue of hosting a dance party at our house this summer. I'm not opposed to the idea, but have some reservation. She asked me if I thought it was possible to have people in the home, and still maintain her privacy. I told her that people are naturally curious. I also told her that inviting people into one's home is also inviting them into your life. She has to decide if privacy or potential friendship is a higher priority. I advised her that unless she was willing to be more open about her life, than I didn't think she was ready to host a dance party.
It's interesting though, that this issue keeps coming up for her. Something inside her is stirring.
I also noticed her clearing the air with our dance instructor at our studio dance on Saturday night. My W didn't have a good experience initially two years ago with the studio for various reasons, and has kept a distance until recently. The instructor listened to her and apologized for not realizing what was going on at the time. My W felt good about the conversation, so it will be interesting to see how her relationship with the instructor and studio develops.
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CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
