I feel you have an extremely lucky husband who has a wife that has a desire to increase her sex drive - that is a true indication that you must deeply love your husband - I am very envious!!! Even though you were the low sex drive spouse, did you always have the desire to increase your sex drive? The reason I ask, is that I don't believe my w has any desire to have any form of sex drive. She believes I should abandon my sex drive and that would solve my problem (ie my problem is I have a sex drive) - she doesn't have a problem.
Do you have any suggestions for assisting the low sex drive spouse in establishing a desire to want to change?
