Glad your Birthday came off pretty nice....there is nothing wrong with eating too much cake. It is good that you learned something from your other Birthday eperience. I had been on the receiving end like your H was a couple years back. Things like that can degenerate pretty quickly.
We all deserve to enjoy our Birthday....my next one is the big 4-0 ughhh......lol
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning