I don't think she seeked out the other guy for that reason. He moved back into town after being out for the last 15 or so and he called to say Hi.
W and I were not really getting along at all a year and a half ago so she did not tell me. He would listen and be understanding. I think it meet her emotional need. I was not that is why I take the blame for it. Like all EA it happened slowly over time, I just thank god that she knew the line and did not cross it.
She did not let it go past that but now that she realizes it was a EA and I think that is because of my comment about not saying ILY to a girlfriend. But again if I had been the man/husband I was suppose to be she would have been able to tell me and it could have just been a friendship and not a EA.
Do you understand what I am saying. It took me a while but I have sorted it out and just need to come to grips with it and forgive her and myself for all this BS. Forgivness of myself is hard I really need to let go of the past and move on to the future.
