Well, I don't think you blew it Rusty, just be careful, because it's very hard not to attach expectations to the act of being sexually intimate. I've had countless friends continue with some sort of sexual relationship with their WASs only to find that it didn't repair things. And then they were hurt even more by not reconciling.
It's sort of a non-truthful way of dealing with things anyway, IMO, in that you are telling him that this means nothing, it was just for fun, and things can continue the way they have been, when I suspect your real feelings are that it might change things and that it did mean something.
I'm no expert (obviously) and this may be a means of re-establishing communication, of the most intimate type, between you. It has to be done carefully though, so I'm thinking that perhaps booty calls should be kept to a minimum?
I'm hoping a guy would chime in here and tell us how it would make him feel. Cause, apparently, I don't know how guys think.
Hope you're doing well today, Rusty.
Married: 25 years Separated: 5 years Kids: 2, ages 21 and 24 Me: 53 H: 50
