I fel much better today than on Saturday. It was our anniversary yesterday and we spent the day taking my S to scout camp. My W is really worried and instead of argue or trying to say that it will be all right. I told her I understood how she could feel that way and I made sure she was comfortable with the camp before we left.
Everytime she would bring it up I would just listen to her and tell her I understand.
We exchanged cards last night and things were ok.
We are not in MC I keep asking her but she wont go. After Friday I really want us to go and I am hopeing I can talk her into it.
I am throwing myself into work right now to give her space. I just don't want it to end this way. I think she has come to the realization that it was an EA and now she has that to deal with.
I want to be there for her but we need C and until she agrees it will take alot longer for us to heal.
Hang in there and continue to do "what was working" before your backslide on Friday.
Sounds like she may now know that it was wrong of her to seek out the other guy.
She may come around as far as MC goes but don't try and push her into it.
