I hope Michelle won't mind me giving out this information, but I have read two books by Dr. Steve Stephens & Alice Gray. One was The Walk Out Woman and the other was The Worn Out Woman. It goes hand in hand with what Michelle teaches and the two books go hand in hand b/c a lot of WAW's are simply worn out from the life they have....whether it is an unhappy M or stressed with too many kids and trying to work and get everybody to everywhere they are suppose to be. Anyway, the Walk Out Woman is a book really for the wife to read b/c it has some self-help tips at the end of the chapters, but it would be a good read for H's as well.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!