here's my question..... Should I not try to understand WHY she doesn't want to be married right now, and just accept it? I think that's what you mean, but I'm not 100% sure.....
The best way to try to figure out the WAW is to read what Michelle has to say about it. That is about as close to it as you can get without getting down to the individual stitch. I can understand your frustration and would be just like you if the shoe was on the other foot. But, I think you could drive yourself crazy trying to figure it out. If you can consentrate on following the DR principles and focus on what you can do to improve your life and try to get your mind off of "why" she doesn't want to be M right now.....you will progress faster and she will begin to notice faster. You know what they say about women changing their minds! Well, the fastest way to change her mind about being M right now is for her to see the changes in you. Easy to say.....harder to do. It almost sounds like a cop-out it is said so much on the board.....but it is the truth and it does work or it would not be repeated as often as it is.
Don't give up. It is the right path to take.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
