"Should I not try to understand WHY she doesn't want to be married right now, and just accept it?"

If.. you walked up to a "hot chick" and asked her to dance.. and she said no... would you try to figure it out.. or move onto the next one?

Now.. I am not telling you to get another "hot chick".

Sometimes.. you have to stand out.. to get the one you want.

If you sit by the bar.. trying to figure out why she said no.

She may never show up.

Self-help books.. only work if you are willing to help yourself.

Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.