Looking for support from other WAS's

[Flipper]

Thanks for your thoughts, lost. Your insider's view really helps me understand. It reminds me of other letters I have given her. When asked later, she acknowledged reading them and keeping them all.

I've been reading some threads of WAS and WAW's. I have noticed a common thread (no pun intended). It seems that when one person chrashes emotionally, the LBS gets so hurt that THEY then crash. Then, if the WAS has a change of heart, the LBS becomes the WAS!! Plus, there is that reverse psychology that takes effect. For example, if my W decided to want me back, there would be a part of me that would say, "Hold on there!" I would have to suddenly fight that feeling to repel her. The more I know me, the more I love my dog! Man! What a whacky world we live in.