I felt the same way. we settled 06/08. I didn't want to but I just couldn't afford not to. I only had 1 attorney, but she ended up having two. Her first attorney gave up, her second saw that this was going know where and decided to settle. My attorney agreed, and indicated to me that we should settle. I didn't want to, but I had no choice due to finances. We settled before trail. It has taken me all this time to finally realize that we are divorced, but for her, she posted on her myspace account "I am finally free". Goes to show what to other WAS really thinks.
