When D11 and I got home today, roomie still in cleaning mode. I start getting in on the action. Roomie had already made hamburgers for lunch. We sat down and watched a movie together while eating a late lunch. We finished watching "Definatly, maybe". Good flick about a guy getting divorced and telling his daughter about the mother. Kind of. I am sitting on the floor with my back against the sofa. She is sitting on the sofa with her feet on the sofe. After the movie, D6 sits with her and we are playing together. Tickling. My arms are resting on her legs. Her feet are against my shoulder. Afterwards, she begins to clean again.
I notice that she has taken some decorations that she had bought presumably for her new apartment and set them out. A large statue of a mother and daughter. They've been in the box for weeks by the front door.
Can't read into that, but a decent sign she is staying a little while.
D6 is starting to get kind of antsy. Wants to go swimming again. I am putting away more clothes. Still haven't figured out what to do for the day. Doesn't seem like were going to do much of anything. I see roomie starting to get frustrated while cleaning up. I have been trying to get the girls involved in some cleaning. Roomie had set up D6 to play in the living room. I ask D6 if she would clean something for me.
Roomie jumps my case and tells me that D6 is fine and quiet playing where she is. I say fine.
Quiet time for me. I finish the clothes. I go look at her med holders. Still haven't taken her meds since Thursday.
I go outside and clean off some tar on her car and wash her car. I wash my truck. She had taken the vent cover to the ac intake off because it was full of dust. Cleaned that. Vaccum my truck.
Meanwhile, I had put on a brisket to cook before all that. I come inside to finish cooking. She is quiet too. She knows that I'm upset. I am going to be the bigger person. I am upbeat. I ask who is hungry. I get dinner together. I ask her what she wants to drink. I serve dinner and get everyones drinks. Roomie is finishing another room.
Thing got better quick. She is asking me what I want to watch on video. Something different. We talk a little about S14. We put on "Haunted Mansion".
Day isn't finished yet. She has gone to pick up S14 from Six Flags.
Lots of cleaning has been going on. Not sure what it means. The house DID need it. It just seems a little confusing. Maybe she is cleaning to get ready to try to sell. Maybe she know that she has to stay a little longer than she planned.
That is possible.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."