Withdrawal of OM and coping

[runningoutoftime]

>>BTW, whatdidido was right in what I meant about the WW comment and that I mean we are all sinners.<<

Do you mean biblically or in the choices people make? We may all be "sinners" at some level or other but there are HUGE differences in the levels of sinning. Just because my sin might be a chocolate martini once in awhile doesn't put me at the same level as a murderer.

Also, just because we are "all sinners" shouldn't relieve anyone of guilt. Guilt is useful. It's what reminds us what we shouldn't do. If you feel guilt you know it's wrong. Don't do it!!!! Just don't go there!!!! And if you've scr@wed up and have been there, well... don't go back! Make choices that build character rather then destroy it.

By the way, I fully support all the WAS (and former WAS) who are here really trying to get over OP and make their marriages work and keep their families together. Yes, I get impatient sometimes and tend to slap knuckles...