Hi LS, I'm sorry I just made it back to your thread. If you have specific questions for me, you may want to post them on my thread, so I see them sooner.

Let's see, I think most WAW's say it as plainly as they can before they blow. To some H's, it may not be strong at all, to some it may be very strong. It just depends on the personality of the W.

I haven't read that book that you asked about.

I strongly encourage MC. It's been a major help to me & us.

M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.