Kiki, No, please don't feel bad. I was just asking to understand the situation. If this feels right for you - to do a 80, please do it. If this is what you truly feel is the right thing to do, don't let anyone else convince you otherwise.
Yes, I agree it's time he respects you. (((kiki))) I do understand how painful it is for your H and MIL to disrespect you.
If this is what you truly feel is the right thing to do, don't let anyone else convince you otherwise.