Wife is considering filing - Need Help

[LosingSunshine]

Good evening everyone. Golf was great today! My swing is really improving and I parred or bogeyed every hole. Of course it is a short course but who cares?

So I get back and the W goes downstairs to rest as she had the kids while I was golfing. A few minutes passed and I went down to tell her that I was leaving to get pizza since that was what a and d wanted. She asked if it was okay for her to join us and I said yes. Dinner was nice and while I was picking up getting ready to take the kids outback to play before bath time, she said her friend. Had txted her and was it okay that she goes out. Not wanting to gay into a r talk I just said sure. I wanted to tell her again, yes I have before, that she doesn't need to ask just to let me know due to kids. It would be less confusing...before she left she did come outback to say goodbye but the kids and I were having too good of a time to notice right away.

So, I got a slick haircut yesterday and thx to sitch I am at my target weight. Gonna start treadmill etc to help maintain. Looking good and feeling better?

Oh, she asked me before I left to go golfing if I wanted a beer. Uh no! Her and her friend were having drinks...

Sandi, thx for the list. I had seen it in another post but could not remember where. Thx for putting it here! I must have read it several times waiting to tee off and I guess I am doing not too bad. I got in trouble with 1 and 3 during the talk yesterday but it revolved around the kids. I'll be stronger next time. I also need to get Bette with 26 and 31. Something to work on this week.

Time to put the kids to bed. I guess the question of the night is do I iron her clothes? I did mine and finished putting mine and the kids laundry that she did earlier. This would be a 180 for me and I did it last week. Not sure if it is pursuing or begging type actions or a kind gesture, according to her POV. Thoughts?