It's been a long time since I've posted. I used to post in other forums hoping this would work out with my husband. My name says it all tho. I really want what's best for me and my kids, and I hope one day I'll get to where I want whats best for my STBX
I just wanted to say I'm definitely divorcing now. I'm happy and sad. Mostly relieved it's all over. I can move down one path and find my way again.
My STBX had OW, came back to me after a year, and kept open window with OW. They are back together the same day we decide to divorce. Nice, eh?
Anyone ever feel like the X knows they are completely unhealthy? Or the opposite - that they look at US with pity that we have no-one?
Is that a weird thought? I HATE the thought of my X pitying me. It's him that's pitiful.
My support says its all time - time will prove which one of us actually has our crap together. I can only hope. I so don't want him to stay with OW long. Partly because I don't want to deal with her, but mostly because I don't want my kids to figure out she's the "one" he left for.
