[quote=Committed2Him Know what your standard is and then don't be afraid to get it out there on the table early on. If you aren't even close to being on the same page, why date them at all? Why start to have feelings for someone who looks at intimacy differently than you do?
thanks C2... I know what my standard is... but sometimes I wonder if I've set the bar too high. In this day and age it is almost unrealistic to even hope for a man to wait a few weeks for intimacy much less to expect him to want to wait on marriage.
I must be just havin' one of those lonely days.... man they really suck!!!!!
So where's the party tonight ...I gotta get my mind of depressing junk! [/quote]
L-N-F, I think you have it in your head that all men want to throw you in the sack, I also believe that you do that to push people away. You have to let your guard down a little and give people a chance. Untill you do that, I think you will struggle with the thoughts of relationships. I.e. they live too far away, they aren't this way, they aren't that way, etc. To put in lamans terms, give someone a chance, if its not right, what have you lost?
