I like the 'emotionally disconnected' selection. Did it happen to both of you.. or is hindsight the indicator?
I still have to toss things, get moving. Wallowing seems to be one of my fortes... kind of the ultimate stuck in the mud kinda gal. Thoughts of "how am I going to ever meet anyone else" flit through then I remember.. oops.. gotta get my act together before anything else.