Very true.. I'm out of mine, too, when I'm not hiding from reality.
Every now and then the thought filters up that the divorce is going to happen. So far it seems my 'fun' centers around pampering.. like the Mother-Daughter posh pedicures (to die for, Peter.. to die for!)
I'll keep moving on.. just doing.. something simple like deciding to go to a movie and going even if no one else wants to join me! I have to get a life!