Thanks TAL. I talked to both boys (funny calling them boys, they're men in every sense of the word) this afternoon. They both feel like I do. If she's not ready to really try this marriage it's best if we just got on with our lives.
And both of them said again that if she thinks OM will ever be a part of their lives, she's sadly mistaken.
Maybe this will wake her up. We shall see.
BTW....it looks like maybe, just maybe WW looked at "not just friends" while I was out grocery shopping. There is a AAA card sitting on top of the book and it looks like it's in a slightly different position than it was before I left. Will she actually begin reading it? Don't know and really don't care at this point.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.