A, Have you sought legal counsel? You may need to do this in order to ensure that you are financially secure after the three months of work. Just because your h is out to lunch and isn't home, doesn't mean that you can't work on ensuring that your are financially secure. Just remember, he's not rational and no matter how hard you try to make him understand your concerns, he's only going to be thinking about himself and how much money you are taking from his "fun" bank. A word of caution, do not take anything he agrees to verbally to the bank. They will agree to just about anything to get us off their backs. Once it's time to cough up what they've promised...well...it's not happening.
A, do not wait another three months to find out what your options are. Start researching now and get your ducks in a row. Once you know what your options are, then I would write them all down and go from there. For now, do this on your own and do not rely on him for anything.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
