Tipper, I think your H would give you more respect if you are kind but firm with him.
You're still clinging to the M. What if you stopped doing that (outwardly)?
I say this and I have let go and do not feel that I am getting good results, BUT I have begun to develop into myself and I can say I have genuinely begun to GAL now.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D