Tipper, I think your H would give you more respect if you are kind but firm with him.

You're still clinging to the M. What if you stopped doing that (outwardly)?

I say this and I have let go and do not feel that I am getting good results, BUT I have begun to develop into myself and I can say I have genuinely begun to GAL now.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D