i think sara i right (she usually is by the way )...
If this isn't a wake up call I don't know what is. It will truly test how and if here family means anything to her and will give you some kind of closure.
Limbo land gets old my friend.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.